I first had the idea to create a blog in 2019. Which is when I actually did create my first blog. I built it up then never published it. Wiped it clean, then did it all over again without ever making the site public. I tried to teach myself coding and a little bit of graphic design which all in all, is not my strong suite. I then figured well maybe I can try Youtube. I learned very quickly with a month of frustration that I HATED editing. Making the videos was fun but nothing was enjoyable about editing it. Life of course keeps moving forward, as did my attention to other things. I shifted my focus to work, looked into graduate school and traveled. Not that I haven't looked back. I would always in the back of my mind wish I had a blog. Somewhere I could share my experiences in a way I enjoyed, that came natural to me. Writing. I've always written. In high school I used to journal, write short stories, poems. I took and absolutely LOVED creative writing in college. The only thing is, I didn't have a niche. Who was my audience? What was my purpose? I didn't want to create a journal style blog. That wouldn't help anybody.

I sat on beginning this blog for a while, a few more months even. I don't want to pour my energy into something that isn't of quality value and serving a purpose. So that led me to some self reflection. Who am I? What are some things I love, some ideals that are important to me? If I were to ask this of myself, I would probably respond...

"Hey. I'm Vondalynn. I love to be in a relaxed, cozy chill vibe. But, I also enjoy to let loose with friends and my husband. He's the most fun of all. I love to make people feel special; to feel confident, inspired and loved. I love to motivate. It makes me incredibly happy to see others thrive and experience joy. I am always a supporter, but not to misconstrue with being a follower because I am also a leader. I enjoy hiking, nature, bonfires, laughs and smiles. Family is important to me, making memories with loved ones. Creating traditions. Self love is important. Sharing knowledge, because if we didn't...well, we'd all be just a pile of bricks. Am I right?

I am newly married, a new mother of 2, a graduate student, a friend, a sibling, a daughter and a confidant. I'm interesting, surprising and funny at times. Corny.

Lately, I've been noticing myself constantly reaching out to people through social media and in life to congratulate them on milestones, support them during difficult times. Providing advice on similar experiences and offering perspective when asked. Although I don't receive this in return, I've realized how much I enjoy being a support for others and providing insight through shared experiences. I've also realized that I speak the most about parenthood. So, it hit me. I should focus my blog on what I love. Writing, being a support, creating a community and providing perspective. I'll have a lot to share as I myself begin this new season of Motherhood and Marriage. It's my hope that my trials and tribulations might inspire someone or provide insight while also building a community for super corny peeps like myself.